God called me, but I don’t know what to do!

How do you feel when you hear that God has a calling for your life? Encouraged? Scared? Confused?

How do you feel when you hear that God has a calling for your life? Encouraged? Scared? Confused?

Maybe you think: What if I mess up? Why did God pick me? What if I don’t want to do whatever it is? The idea that God has a call on our life is mystical, encouraging, and scary. If you feel this way you are not alone.

Moses had the same feelings in Exodus chapter 4. During his conversation with God at the burning bush when God tells Moses to bring Israel out of slavery. Moses tries to talk God out of it. I am just going to focus on verses 10-12.

10 Then Moses said to the Lord, "Please, Lord, I have never been eloquent, neither recently nor in the past, nor since You have spoken to your servant; for I am slow to speech and slow of tongue."

Obviously, God chose the wrong person. God was calling Moses to speak, but Moses was not a good speaker.

11-12 And the Lord said to him, "Who has made man's mouth? Or who makes people unable to speak or hear, able to see or blind? Is it not I, the Lord? Now then go, and I, even I, will be with your mouth, and teach you what you are to say.

Okay, maybe God did choose the right person.

I love the last part, I will…teach you what you are to say.

Teaching is different than telling.

Teaching is a process. Telling is a one time thing.

I believe this is true for you and I. God’s calling is a process of God teaching us what we are to do. God does not just drop a calling into our heart and sit back to see if we figure it out. God works in us and through us, teaching us the way in which we should go.

Sure it is scary. Of course it takes time. But God has designed us for this purpose, even if we don’t see it.

Let’s pray.

Jesus, thank you for calling us. Now make us students of your voice, so we can hear you teach us the way. Remind our excuses that You are the God who made us and called us. We know that if you began this work, then you will carry it on to completion. We love you! In your mighty name we pray. Amen.

Love and Blessin’s,

Dave

Turn Aside to Marvelous Distractions

Did you ever consider that Moses received his call from God through a marvelous distraction in his daily life?

Do you ever wonder how God calls people? Do you think there are too many distractions in the way of your calling? I love this scenario in Exodus:

Now Moses was pasturing the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian; and he fed the flock to the west side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. The angel of the Lord appeared to him in a blazing fire from the midst of a bush; and he looked, and behold, the bush was burning with fire, yet the bush was not consumed. So Moses said, “I must turn aside now and see this marvelous sight, why the bush is not burned up.” When the Lord saw that he turned aside to look, God called to Him from the midst of the bush…

Exodus 3:1-4

Summary:

  • Moses is doing his normal job (tending the flock)
  • He saw something out of sorts (bush on fire but not consumed)
  • He turned to inspect (he was curious).
  • When God saw that Moses turned to look, THEN God called to him.

Ponderings:

Here are a few questions that resonate with me. Maybe they will with you also.

  • Am I overlooking any marvelous distractions?
  • Would I even notice something marvelous in my busy workday?
  • Even if I saw it, am I too busy to stop and look? Am I too busy to turn away from the “busyness” of my life to see if that thing happening just might be a marvelous distraction?
  • Is this the only time God set up a marvelous distraction to get Moses’ attention? Or were there other times where Moses didn’t take the time to turn and look?

I love that the call of God on Moses’ life came “when the Lord saw that he turned aside to look…”. God set up the distraction, but Moses still had to express some curiosity.

It is also important that Moses’ calling was not a career in flaming bushes. What God used to get Moses’ attention was not what God called Moses to.

While God calls people in many ways, I believe there is much to learn from this scenario.

May we take the time to notice the marvelous distractions around us, turn aside to look, and be open to the call God may have for us in that moment.

Love and Blessin’s,

Dave

Give God the Pen

Give God permission to write your story. Give Him the pen. Then willingly step into the story God writes for you. 

First, I want to thank you for your patience while I went “blog silent” for a while. I also want to wish my beautiful daughter a Happy Birthday! I love you daddy time! I love you Big Time! (only she will understand  ) Continue reading “Give God the Pen”

Would you like to make less money?

“Burger Boy” is what they called me. My job was to make sure the meat was ready when the customers ordered sandwiches. I didn’t even make sandwiches for the first several weeks of my new job.

In high school I worked fast food. I still say this was the most fun job I ever had, and the most stressful. I worked at a particular restaurant for five years. In those 5 years I went from “Burger Boy” to the assistant store manager, where the store manager was the only person in the store above me. Most importantly in those five years, I met the girl of my dreams.

I was still working there when I had less than 12 months until our wedding. And I had a problem.

I had to make more money.

I set my eye on getting into the Human Resources (HR) field and the opportunities in fast food at that time were pretty limited. I had no degree, and honestly did not know very much about HR. I was earning an annual salary of $19,500 plus benefits. I also had the pleasure of working at least 50 hours a week closing the store most nights.

A friend worked at one of the large corporations in the area and she helped me get an interview in the accounting department for an entry level position. Interview went well and the offer came in…$19,000 (~3% reduction). To me, it was a no-brainer. Absolutely!

Later in my career I found myself working a job in HR. I was again working well over 50 hours a week. My ability to have successful relationships with family, friends, church, myself, and even my hobbies was diminishing. If I wanted to be a successful dad, husband, or even friend, then I would have to make a decision.

I had to decide what was more important – Success at Work or Success at Home

I chose home! After some soul searching and preparation, I began looking for new opportunities. Similarly, the solution came through a friend. The interview went well, and the offer came back lower than what I was currently making. To me, it was a no-brainer. Absolutely!

In both cases the opportunities outweighed the risk. And both cases turned out great!

Getting to the decision to make a change was not as easy. I needed to be sensitive to whatever that new opportunity would be.

Five key considerations before quitting your current job to go to a new one…especially if you are going to make less money:

  1. Fit – Is this a company you would like to work for, or does this provide cushion while you look for the job you want? Is this a job that you would like to do? Do you want to learn what you need to about the business? Can you add value to your team and the business? Do you like what you know about the culture of the business?
  2. Career – Does this job help you get to where you want to go? In my first example I wanted to go from fast food to HR but took an entry level job in an accounting department. In my interview I told them I wanted to get into HR. Less than 2 years later, an opening came up, and I got that job. My accounting team was excited for me, and appreciative that I had been open with them the whole time about what I wanted to do.
  3. Salary – This is usually the one thing that will almost never reduce as long as you are with a company. If it’s enough to get you started, go for it.
  4. Benefits – In the US there is a mix of offerings that we call “benefits”. Some are required by the government (e.g. social security) and some are not required (e.g. vacation, additional retirement options) allowing businesses to decide how/what they want to provide. Take a good look at both. Example – a company who offers you $100 and matches your 401k at 6% may be a better deal than a company who offers $105 and a 401k match of 3% (if you use the benefit).
  5. Pray – As a Christian, it is important for me to seek God about things in my life. I also listen to friends and mentors. Even if you aren’t a person of faith, I would encourage seeking council in big decisions like this. There is a lot of wisdom in multiple counselors.

Obviously, I didn’t seek a new job to make less money. And I would not encourage you to do that either. But, I would encourage you to look at your situation and determine if the money you are making is worth the sacrifices it takes. Tough times will come and go, so you want to be sure that in the long run you’re able to focus on the most meaningful things of life.

 

Why you will never earn what you are worth

Why you will never earn what you are worth!

My heart was broken after a conversation I had with a young, well paid and respected executive. He was told in school that if he doesn’t double his pay every two years then he is failing at growing his career. For most of his career his pay had doubled at least every two years. What the instructor failed to tell him was what it would cost him. His family suffered greatly.

In that moment I wish the instructor had a different message:

You are more valuable than your paycheck!

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Your Calling, Your Purpose, Your Future – Your Moment

We sat across from each other with our coffee cups in hand. The conversation was getting serious. He stared intently at his cup. His eyes glazed over with hopelessness and confusion. “David, what is my calling? What is my purpose? What does my future look like?” He wanted direction. He looked at me as if somehow I could point him in the right direction.

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